I have started following @LisaLuxeLooks on YouTube. She is so unashamedly who she is, wearing styles such as a slip dress, a sleeveless gown or a short skirt we have long been told woman past childbearing age should avoid at all costs. Lisa is having fun with fashion, rather than hiding away, creeping, grey hair covered or dyed, a spine horribly curved from osteoporosis. Not a bit of it!
I was struck too by recent footage of Ali MacGraw, 85 (a longtime idol of mine), leaving her apartment in Manhattan, immaculate and elegant in a trouser suit, silver hair in a topknot. She is so far from the image we are always being sold, which is of 80 year olds twiddling a hanky in liver spotted hands, sat in a care home, waiting to die.

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Compare both of the above with the wonderful Katie Johnson, star of 1955’s The Ladykillers. She played the landlady, Louisa Wilberforce. She was just 76.
Or Esma Cannon, who played little old ladies in a series of Carry On films when she was only in her mid fifties.
Women today, with better nutrition and fitness, access to high street fashion and cutting edge cosmetics and, most importantly, disposable independent income, no longer look like that.
Compare my mum at 60, and me at the exact same age.
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